It’s possible that you found this post hoping to learn something about “Functional Threshold Power”. While that’s not the FTP I’m referring to, in a roundabout way I’m confident you just might learn something about that too.
Nikki and I are expecting our third child in August. As a change-up, we decided to not find out the gender and to use the HypnoBirthing method to deliver the baby.
What exactly is Hypnobirthing?
Nikki was really intrigued by the idea of placing herself in an ultra-calm state using visualizations, music, self-hypnosis, and relaxation techniques, to give birth. She liked the thought of going through the process in a gentle and relaxing way. And without an epidural.
So she asked for my support and got it. Then we dove into a comprehensive training course. The course was designed around “The Mongan Method”.
Nikki was never under the illusion that childbirth won’t hurt; she’s gone through this twice and knows the reality! But, what if it was up to her to choose how she wants her body to handle the pain?
There have been a lot of funny moments in the class. For example, I learned from the HypnoBirthing instructor (aka “doula”) that the doctor doesn’t deliver the baby; he receives the baby. The mother delivers the baby.
I immediately liked the approach of empowering the mother by using language. At the same time I couldn’t help but chuckle! Why?
Because my dad is an OB/GYN and has been practicing medicine for about 36 years. It makes me smile when I think about correcting him in a future conversation, saying “No dad, you didn’t deliver five babies last night…you received them.” Haha!
The most memorable class was when we learned about the FTP syndrome.
It suggests that when a woman is in “Fear” this causes “Tension” in her body, which then results in “Pain”.
But that’s not all. It’s a vicious cycle as the pain then triggers more fear.
Interestingly, the abbreviation is the same as “failure to progress” – words used by the medical profession regarding labor.
I think it takes a lot of guts to approach a pregnancy this way.
I’m proud of Nikki and all the women in the class that have risen to this challenge – to face the “fear” head on and to equip themselves with techniques to use when the time is right. It’s been a great experience so far.
A takeaway: your fears (hidden or obvious) may be sabotaging your capacity to access your full potential.